Here’s a checklist off the top of my head: OK, so what are some signs you can tell if he likes you? If he does several of these things, he likes you. So make sure you let the first part of what I said sink in. If you’re going to read it, keep in mind that how you think and your mindset is way more important than what you do. Now, in the remaining part of the article, I’m going to talk about ways that you can tell if he likes you. Put your focus on really liking yourself and believing that the types of guys you like also like you… The more you like yourself and believe that you can have what you want, the more likely you actually will. In psychology, they call this a “self-fulfilling prophecy”. But if you don’t know one way or the other what he thinks of you, assuming that he likes you will automatically cause you to act in a way that’s more… “likable” and attractive.Īnd as a result, there’s a really good chance that he’ll end up liking you back (in the end) if you assume that he does like you. I’m not saying to delude yourself or to totally ignore reality. Worrying what the other person thinks usually just creeps them out… but assuming that they like you in the way that you want them to… well, that usually leads to them actually liking you! But you have to get good at believing in yourself and assuming that what you want to be true, is true.
At the heart of it, that’s what confidence is… My suggestion is rather than trying to “solve the mystery”, assume that things are the way you want them to be. The reality is that playing emotional detective usually only succeeds at doing one thing: Making the girl go absolutely crazy.
It’s a sense that you don’t really believe that it could be true, but you really want it to be.Ī lot of the time, women fall into the trap of playing “emotional detective”: They dig into their memories and observations and go through EVERY insignificant detail to try and uncover some “hidden message” or “secret code” that the guy is sending. You ever play those games? Look at horoscopes? Look for “signs” that it’s meant to be?Īt the heart of all of these games and guesses is doubt. But deeper than that, what you’re hoping is for me to confirm that I see things the way you want them to be – “he loves me, he loves me not, he loves me, etc.”
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